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I cant stress enough how capable the more skilled manipulators are of using just about any behavior imaginable to accomplish their aims. This is especially true when the manipulator has a good read on the character of their target of manipulation. When a covert aggressor CA knows his or her opponent inside out i. Because its so unrealistic to list all the possible ways a covertly aggressive individual can get the better of another person, I find it helpful to focus attention on the more common tactics CAs employ and to explain in depth why the tactics are so effective. Understanding the basics of how manipulation works gives the potential victim of covert aggression a better intuitive grasp of the nature of troublesome encounters with all disturbed characters and heightens their sensitivity to the many possible tactics a manipulator might employ. Lets talk first about the tactic of rationalization. Actually, a better term for this tactic would be excuse making or justifying. The term rationalization derives from the Freudian notion that people sometimes unconsciously defend themselves against the anxiety they might experience by engaging in actions that violate their conscience. By finding reasons that seem to make their actions more benign, appropriate, acceptable, or understandable, any qualms of conscience are assuaged. But this scenario, of course, assumes that the person actually has a well developed conscience. And this type of rationalization is a strictly internal and largely unconscious process. When disturbed characters make excuses for their behavior, they know what theyre doing. They have a clear purpose in mind when theyre seeking to justify themselves. They use this tactic only when they know full well theyve done something or plan to do something most everyone would regard as wrong. But even knowing its wrong, and knowing how negatively the action reflects on them, they remain determined to do it. They might feel entitled to do it as in the case of more narcissistic individuals or they may simply pit themselves against the generally accepted rules as in the case of the aggressive personalities. Whats most important to recognize is that at the very moment theyre making the excuse, theyre not defending at all or unconsciously fending off any anxiety. Rather, theyre actively fighting against a principle they know society wants them to adopt. And more importantly, theyre also trying to get you to go along with it. Covertly aggressive folks prefer this kind of tactic as opposed to open defiance because it not only helps conceal their aggressive intentions as well as some telltale aspects of their character but also simultaneously helps them maintain a more favorable social image by getting someone else to see things their way or buy into the purported reasonableness of their actions. And once they get the other person to become more accepting of their premise, theyre well on their way to winning the contests of image and interpersonal control. Think just a little bit more about this tactic. Its a testament to what Ive said all along about disturbed characters and their level of awareness for more on this you might want to read the post  They Know What Theyre Doing. Why are the elaborate explanations and justifications necessary if the person doesnt realize how most people would judge their actions Its not that they dont know most folks would regard their behavior as wrong. And its also not that they truly believe in their hearts that what theyve done is okay. Windows 7 Activator Loader V2 2 1 All Versions Of Android there. Rather, they simply dont want you to negatively appraise their character and possibly be done with them. And, more importantly, they dont want to accept and internalize the notion that such behavior should not be done again. The very fact that at the moment they engage in the tactic theyre resisting accepting a principle and obstructing the internalization of that principle into their own social conscience is the best indication theyre likely to do the very same thing again in any similar circumstance. Think about it.  How many times have you relented after half heartedly accepting someones lame excuse only to find yourself dealing with the exact same behavior time and time againLets look at another tactic denial. Now this is also a term that had its roots in classical Freudian psychology. Freud conceived it as a primitive and unconscious defense against unbearable emotional pain. And there actually is a type of denial that fits this classic definition. I give an example of it in my book Character Disturbance A woman has been married to the same man for 4. She has just rushed him to the hospital because, while they were out in the yard working, he began having trouble speaking and looked in some distress. The doctors later tell her that he has suffered a stroke, is virtually brain dead, and will not recover. Yet, every day she is by his bedside, holding his hand and talking to him. The nurses tell her that he cannot hear, but she talks to him anyway. The doctors tell her he will not recover, but she only replies, I know hell pull through, hes such a strong man. This woman is in a unique psychologicalstate the state of denial. She can hardly believe what has happened. Not long ago she was in the yard with her darling, enjoying one of their favorite activities. The day before, they were at a friends home for a get together. He seemed the picture of happiness and health. He didnt even seem that sick when she brought him to the hospital. Now in a blink of an eye theyre telling her hes gone. This is far more emotional pain than she can bear just yet. Shes not ready to accept that her partner of 4. Shes not quite ready to face a life without him. So, her unconscious mind has provided her with an effective albeit most likely temporary defense against the pain. Eventually, as she becomes better able to accept the distressing reality, her denial will break down. When it does, the pain it served to contain will gush forth and she will grieve. This is classic denial. And to this day its simply amazing to me how many people, especially mental health professionals, will simply assume that this is whats always at work when character disturbed people deny their wrongdoings. Character disturbed patients will resist admitting things everyone knows they have done and the therapist might say Give him or her time, theyre still in denial. And they make equally unwarranted assumptions, like mounds of shame and guilt must certainly underlie the denial. Why else would they deny, especially the obvious They must have more shame and guilt about what theyve done than they can bear, right Wrong  Refusing to acknowledge the truth is not the same thing as neurotic denial. Its simply lying and very different in character from the phenomenon I described in the first example.